I find it really hard when skinny girls sit around and say they are fat, that they need motivation to get skinny and all that. I understand that it is each to their own, that everyone is entitled to the right to love or hate their body, I understand that people’s perceptions are warped and I understand society is to blamed. But beautiful girls and women are striving for a level of perfection which is gonna leave them dead. And it is scaring me! I am the first person to raise my hand and tell you I hate my body, that i long to be healthy and I long to be beautiful. So I know the torment we can give ourselves regarding our bodies, I understand the self hatred that flows like the blood in our veins, I understand the anxiety born from it, the constant thoughts of disgust running through my mind, the constant worry and fear and everything else, I know and I understand. But you have to understand for me, a person who is medically considered overweight, bordering obese it’s heart breaking to see so many people who would be considered healthy if not skinny, to be destroying their bodies, to be yearning after something dangerous. Please girls all I ask is that we strive to be healthy not to be skinny, not to be thin with bones sticking out.